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Your child self assessment self thinking habits we used to say: "you know". Means that people have to learn how to correctly evaluate yourself, see your strengths, build self-confidence, but also recognize his own shortcomings, and actively corrected. "Knowing" is "expensive", because people often failed to properly evaluate its sometimes overestimated the advantages, resulting in pride; sometimes underestimate themselves, form the inferiority complex, affecting their development.
For children, due to their own lack of experience, lack of standards to evaluate your grasp, and also lack of self-evaluation methods, often too high or too low to evaluate themselves.
Child to grasp the correct way of self-assessment, can provide insights into yourself, right to establish their own ideal goals, establish their status in the family, schools and can find their advantages, build up confidence; you can also find their own shortcomings and deficiencies, and appropriate adjustment or work on them. Teach your child to evaluate yourself, first of all to instil in children evaluation of self in everyday life standards. Parents begin to teach kids about comprehensive evaluation of themselves, learning, integrity, appearance and so on each separate advantages and disadvantages, and comprehensive about ourselves. To compare themselves with their peers than on the one hand, on the other hand to take myself and my old self now.
In these evaluations, spirit of virtue first, followed by learning principles again, looks, emphasized the importance of virtue in evaluating self, teach children's standards. Parents teaching their children a comprehensive evaluation themselves, parents evaluate children in front of children overall. Child's self-assessment principles, a lot was learned from their parents, if the parents for the child's evaluation is biased, only looks at the benefits, or only reprimand is not enough children for their evaluation will be even further to a one-sided and extreme, because parental authority makes children accept their parents ' principles in the subconscious. Therefore, parents in evaluating the child should be comprehensive and just, could not hold the high school kids in contrast to primary school students, cannot request children by adult standards.

In addition, parents should let children do some self-evaluation, parents do not participate in comments: many parents in the child assessment and analysis, the following qualitative conclusions. Especially for the disobedient child, parents often tongue in saying: "hopeless", "I'm totally disappointed in you" conclusion, the words export, often let their children lack of space, themselves under their negative conclusions, even after poguanposhuai and is no more self-esteem and self-confidence.
Which requires parents to their children after making a full and impartial analysis, the children themselves to your own conclusions, leaving children self-esteem and correct mistakes. Parents should let children learn self evaluation methods, also give your child lots of interaction with peers. Since self-evaluation of sources, both on their own awareness; on the other, they know to others for their evaluation. Children and adults can learn his place in the adult mind, of course, but that interaction with the depressing side of, and interaction with peers is arbitrary, and similarity of experience and the experience of their peers and their evaluation with a strong credibility. Children in their dealings with partners, learn from partner's acceptance or rejection of their image and status in the partner in order to establish confidence or reflect on his. Of course, the children where the evaluation has its biases between, for example due to jealousy deliberately alienating good grades and teachers to maintain intimacy; result of fads Chase family wealthier students; or disagreements between gangs fighting. At this point, the parents of children peer evaluation is necessary to launch a comprehensive, impartial analysis, guide the children screened errors, selectively absorb learning. Anyway, to cultivate an all-round development of personality the child, then your child self assessment self thinking habits.